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August 31, 2021 by Tracy Gaines

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I know it has been months since I have typed something up for my almost famous blog. I’m pretty sure it’s not that thing they call “writers block” and the reason I know this to be true is… you have to be a writer.

Ideas are constantly spinning into conversations in my head but if I waited around until I had something riveting to say…  I never would have started a blog in 2015!

I take that back. My father passed away a few weeks ago and “we” (Graham and Mercy) have a new baby girl on the way. Both of which are riveting to me…down to the very core of ALL things riveting. But it is those monumental moments in life I seem to freeze. Afraid to move and afraid to breathe. I have the hardest time expressing my thoughts into mere words on a page. I’ll take a moment to say…I am at peace. My father had a pretty much perfect 95 years on this earth, and was by far the happiest man I ever have known. He told me so at every single visit I ever had with him. And this sweet baby girl that will be here in just a minute…well, she just might be the luckiest child ever born!

What I truly find “riveting” is other peoples lives! Listening to their story. Where they have been, the mystery of how they got here, and discovering where in the world are they going. I’m constantly intrigued by decisions people make. How hard they are willing to work. Why they believe in what they do, and what behaviors offend them. But I also very much need to know how they fell in love, what places do they want to see and, of course, what grosses them out the most. (I have an extensive list)

“They” say the more you listen the wiser you become. The more roads you travel the more experienced you are, and if you have bargained with the devil a few times like me the less mistakes you will likely make. As a younger girl I had three goals… popular, skinny, and popular. I wanted to be street smart like a whore after midnight, while holding a tight grip to my parents hand like frightened child walking into the darkness. What I’m saying is… it was hard for me to find me. My life desperately needed a GPS or at least a descent flashlight.

I now am clear about what I don’t know. Learning from everyone else’s connections and wisdom is what I have always wanted…and I have found a beautiful path. As I mentioned in the previous blog Haley and I were starting a project. We are not afraid, or even concerned with the outcome. We ARE interested in having fun and learning something in the process…we have managed to do both. So far, we have interviewed 6 successful intelligent local entrepreneurs for our podcast called “THE SCOOP” with Tracy and Haley. Coming soon.

I have to be honest…the women are so smart they make me feel a little dumb…. but I have never had so much fun!

side note…Haley is having a little baby boy any day. (her third child…first boy) This go around she is going to try for a home birth…

RIVETING….wouldn’t you say!

 

 

 

Category: General, slideshowTag: expecting, homebirth, i, intelligent, popular, riveting

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Comments

  1. Kelley Friedman

    August 31, 2021 at 8:07 pm

    Mom, you are an amazing writer and I know you are going to be an even more amazing interviewer! Way to go on trying out something new! I can’t wait to listen! I love you!

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    • Tracy Gaines

      September 1, 2021 at 7:55 am

      You were the one that pushed me into this briar patch…and said “I should”…and I am so glad you did. You are the bravest girl in the world!
      I love you too.

      Reply
  2. Frank Booth

    August 31, 2021 at 9:10 pm

    Please do not stop writing your blogs after your podcast efforts begin. As your undesignated editor, I enjoy your writing. Your radio talent was obvious; therefore, I expect your podcasts to be good too. Unlike Andy, remember … I DID hire you!

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    • Tracy Gaines

      August 31, 2021 at 11:34 pm

      I find writing a peaceful task…talking comes somewhat natural…(especially at happy hour) but now I’m enjoying listening for a change. These young humans are so smart, vivacious, and have such interesting lives. You are the boss…when it comes to building me up…Dean Booth!

      Reply
  3. Sherri Harrison

    August 31, 2021 at 9:13 pm

    Can’t wait for your podcast!!!♥️

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    • Tracy Gaines

      September 1, 2021 at 7:51 am

      Thank you Sherri…we need to interview YOU! We will let you know when it is up and at em!

      Reply
  4. LeAnn Nethery

    August 31, 2021 at 9:16 pm

    Love love love your thoughts! I wish I would just make myself do something exciting like a blog. The best part is you are just putting it out there and making us all think.
    BTW…the home birth is quite riveting. LOL

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    • Tracy Gaines

      August 31, 2021 at 11:39 pm

      You are your daughter’s hero…you can take a bow. Yes…we have a lot of riveting stuff going on…which I prefer a raining day writing about it any day!

      Reply
  5. Susie Tart

    August 31, 2021 at 9:26 pm

    You have a lot going on! Love your blog and look forward to the podcast!

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    • Tracy Gaines

      August 31, 2021 at 11:52 pm

      It makes me sleepy thinking about a new baby. I love more than anything talking to all of these wonderful people. They are fascinating me with their talents and especially their energy! How they do all they do???? I took naps when I had three babies…I certainly wasn’t running a business!(although I thought I had a successful laundry business….Free of charge!)

      Reply
  6. Sue

    August 31, 2021 at 9:39 pm

    Keep writing girlfriend you’re great. 😊

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    • Tracy Gaines

      August 31, 2021 at 11:54 pm

      You got it girlfriend…I love it! Will never stop doing it…Thank you Sue…Love you!

      Reply
  7. Carole Roberts

    August 31, 2021 at 10:14 pm

    I can’t wait for another blog from you as they are always riveting to me. Please don’t stop them! However, I wish you the best of luck on your new venture into the podcast world. Girl, you got some guts!

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    • Tracy Gaines

      August 31, 2021 at 11:56 pm

      Carole…I think about you and your move out west….YOU should write a blog!!! Thanks for the guts comment…No one really feels like they have “guts” do they?

      Reply
  8. Charlotte jackson

    August 31, 2021 at 10:41 pm

    This was a great one Tracy!!! Always fun seeing what you’re up to!!! Looking forward to your podcast!

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    • Tracy Gaines

      September 1, 2021 at 12:01 am

      Not up to any shenanigans sadly…but we can make that happen Miss Charlotte! I love you and miss you so much! Thanks for being my friend…friend.

      Reply
    • Jane Truelove

      September 1, 2021 at 5:18 am

      I LOVE reading your blog and cannot wait for the podcast!

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      • Tracy Gaines

        September 1, 2021 at 8:00 am

        Thanks Jane…I will let you know, and I will still make you cheese wafers after I become famous! Love you!

        Reply
  9. Harriet

    September 1, 2021 at 8:14 am

    You are so brave to out urself out there like u do, I wish I were as brave as u. Xxxooo

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    • Tracy Gaines

      September 4, 2021 at 10:53 am

      Honey…I have always been “out there”! Let it rip I say! 🙂

      Reply
  10. Suzy Waikel

    September 1, 2021 at 10:53 am

    Tracy,
    I so enjoy reading your Blogs Tracy, and I find your perspective on life as genuine, raw and real as it gets. That’s the beauty, so keep inspiring and entertaining us whether its through your witty blogs, exciting new podcasts or in person as we drink our Chardonnay solving the world’s problems. HA! Suzy

    Reply
    • Tracy Gaines

      September 4, 2021 at 10:52 am

      Chardonnay is my forte!

      Reply
  11. Leah Coker

    September 1, 2021 at 11:20 am

    Love reading your blog. You always knew the latest news even before it was made. I’m so sorry to hear about your dad though. It’s hard to lose your parents. You feel a little lost in the world. Good luck with your interviews. There are a lot of intelligent, successful folks in Gainesville.

    Reply
    • Tracy Gaines

      September 4, 2021 at 10:48 am

      I use to love a good gossip column! So I’ll just start one of my own…in podcast form!

      Reply
  12. Andrea Gilbert

    September 1, 2021 at 1:09 pm

    Another good read from my hometown author. Yes, you are an author.

    Reply
    • Tracy Gaines

      September 4, 2021 at 10:47 am

      My English teacher would beg to differ…but I didn’t care then, so I don’t care now…just write what I want. No assignments! Making it happen!

      Reply
  13. Marge

    September 1, 2021 at 6:36 pm

    Cannot WAIT for the podcast debut!!! I have missed reading the blogs… do it all:)

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    • Tracy Gaines

      September 4, 2021 at 10:44 am

      Two babies and a podcast coming out into the world. It’s going to be a busy fall ya’ll! You always have been my cheerleader! Love you!

      Reply

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